Day TWO of CASSIE’S thoughts on Holiday Cheer & Etiquette:

Ok so now I know you’re all wondering, how do I choose an appropriate gift for a holiday friend, hostess or foe? Exchanging gifts is an etiquette minefield studded with unspoken rules (step very, very carefully), do you or do you not bring a gift? (hey I’m not called mini Martha for nothing.) First you need to think of the extent of hospitality provided.

Think a Yes, if you are a houseguest, visiting someone’s house for the first time, have been invited to a holiday dinner/party, or someone has given their time, resources, thoughtfulness and energy to someone or something you love & you want to say thank you.

Think a No, if you’re only doing coffee, having a quick lunch out, helping your sister, want to keep a fair weather friend/ foe (let them go. Their dragging you down) or you’re just invited to go caroling w/ friends.

 So the next question is what do I get & how much do I spend?  Gift giving really depends on how well you know the recipient.  I feel it is important to express thanks & thoughtfulness, with at least a small token of appreciation.  Giving to others may bring you pleasure but keep in mind not to overdo it.  Here at CASSANDRA’S FLORALS I always suggest having a budget in mind and don’t go over.  We offer a wide array of gift giving ideas that will fit into any budget.  Most customers rely on one of the standard three hostess gifts: flowers, alcohol or food.

Of course Flowers are right up my alley. Here at CASSANDRA’S FLORALS we have everything from beautiful candles, one of a kind finds & unique floral arrangements. Everything from Poinsettia's, Wreaths, Garland, Christmas Cactus, Azaleas, Cyclamen, Kalanchoe, Rosemary Trees, Frosty Ferns, Decorative Crosses, Mantle Piece's , Helping you Decorating Your Home, Centerpieces, Arrangements, Gourmet Fruit Baskets, Holiday Themed Baskets, Balloon's and much much more.  Unfortunately I can’t sell the alcohol or food, since I’m not licensed to do either. So I say just stick with the FLOWERS! That way No one can be upset with you for helping them get drunk, (they could be in rehab for all you know), or if somebody’s on jenny craigish type plan ( you don’t want them to think you’re getting them fat again).

Following the above advice will help in your wish to give it back.  And always remember the golden rule..It is always better to be a gracious giver than a receiver.